Practice Makes Better!! Ways to help your child develop good practice techniques.
Parents often ask me how to get they can get their child to practice more? Many often say, “I don’t have any musical training, how can I help my son or daughter with band?” Another statement often made is, “How do I know if they are playing things correctly?” I would like to offer some suggestions that may help you, help your child. After many years of seeing music students come and go, as well as having two children of my own that also play instruments, I have learned a lot.
Practice Time
This is the area where parents and students struggle the most. As a parent, I realize that schedules are tight. As we try to balance our schedules and the schedules that we have for our children, something must give from time to time. Even the band director’s child may have a bad week of practice here and there. So here are some things you can do to help keep your young musician on the right track.
Make practicing a priority – If you show interest in having your child practice just like you do when they have homework, it will hopefully become a priority for them.
Make homework time practice time- Consider practicing as part of their homework time. It should be treated like any other academic subjects. As students go through their assignments for the evening, include their band assignment as part of their work. Music is a great way to give the brain a break and use some other senses for a while. Studies have shown that music helps the brain think in a different way and that translates into more success in the academic classroom.
Ask your child to play for you – You may not have any musical training but you do have ears. Show your child that you want to hear them play. You may not know exactly what they are playing but you can tell if something sounds good. Many of the lines from the lesson book are familiar songs so you may know them. You can comment on their sound, their posture, if it has improved since the last time you heard it. Kids want you to notice when they are doing something positive. Don’t send them away to practice. Have them near by so you can hear them if not see them. Ask them to play for their family members at gatherings.
It’s not always how much time but how many- People often say that you have to practice 30 min. or 45 min. each day. Depending on what level your child is at, the length of time a child practices may vary. I have found that not every child can stay focused for 30 or 40 min. or so when practicing alone. It may be better to break up the practice time into smaller practice sessions. Students may practice for 15 minutes on a few things, take a break, and come back and do 15 or 20 minutes later. This can help keep them fresh.
Use the practice CD’s – Every Standard of Excellence book comes with a play along cd to help the students with the lines in their book. Many of them do not use it but it is a great way to help them identify incorrect notes and rhythms. It also helps keep a steady pulse. Some of the lines may be played too fast on the recording to play along with but it can still help them identify whether they are playing it correct or not.
Get some music to play for fun – All of the music your child plays does not have to be from the lesson book. Go to your local music store or go online to find some music that they like to play for fun. Holiday songbooks, Disney, Movies, Popular music, you name it and it is out there. Choose something that is easy to play in a short period of time. If you would like some suggestions please let me know. I hope to have some links up on the music web page soon for you to access.
Practice with a friend – From time to time it might be more fun if your child practices with a friend. Practicing with someone also gives your child someone to get feedback from.I hope that some of the suggestions that I have made will help you have a better idea of how to approach your child’s practice habits. You can make a difference simply by being involved and interested in your child’s musical education.
Thanks,
Mr. T